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#RI-6ae8a0e6·5 months ago·
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“Setting boundaries with my mother”
What Actually Happened
My mother was abusive and controlling, making me feel guilty and responsible for my brothers' failures
What I wish I knew
"Setting clear boundaries would have saved me from emotional distress"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Prioritize self-care and seek support when dealing with toxic family relationships"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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family Category
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family decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
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