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#RI-69aa8774·3 months ago·
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“Set boundary with boyfriend about drinking”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend's drinking problem re-emerged, causing emotional distress and re-triggering past trauma
What I wish I knew
"How to better support someone with a drinking problem"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care when dealing with a partner's addiction"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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