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#RI-69aa862c·3 months ago·
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Lookback: almost 1 year of long distance

Set boundary to avoid drunk behavior

Partner becomes mean when blacked out drunk, triggering past trauma

What I wish I knew
"Not sure if boundary is realistic considering age and partying lifestyle"
If I could tell you one thing
"Weigh the importance of trust and boundaries in relationships"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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