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#RI-6ae8aa98·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: A few days

“Told DIL not to expect me to choose her over my daughter”

DIL got upset, accused me of favoring daughter's twins over her child

What I wish I knew
"Communicate with DIL before making plans"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be clear with expectations and avoid comparisons between family members"
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2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
Would make the same decision again.
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