RelationshipsDivorce
#RI-6a6b0500·9 months ago·
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“Told him to get divorced”
What Actually Happened
He blamed me for the blow up, saying I'm selfish and dismissive
What I wish I knew
"He was manipulating me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set boundaries and don't take blame for partner's actions"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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