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relationshipDivorce
#RI-6a6b0500·7 months ago·
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Told him to get divorced

He blamed me for the blow up, saying I'm selfish and dismissive

What I wish I knew
"He was manipulating me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set boundaries and don't take blame for partner's actions"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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