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#RI-6a6b07a3·7 months ago·
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Clarify friendship boundaries before it gets complicated

I noticed my friend acting strangely, blushing and seeking physical contact, which made me suspect she might have feelings for me

What I wish I knew
"How to address the situation without hurting her feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and clear about your intentions to avoid misunderstandings"
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