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#RI-6a7aaa3f·8 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 months after breakup

“can't keep being the person she leans on”

She still treats me like her boyfriend, but says she doesn't want me back

What I wish I knew
"Why keep me in her life if she doesn't want a relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries with your ex"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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