relationshipsBoundary Setting
#RI-6aaa14cf·6 months ago·
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“Ask girlfriend to stop calling during social events”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend calls me every time I'm with friends, causing concern about setting boundaries
What I wish I knew
"Understand her reasons for calling before addressing the issue"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and clear when discussing boundaries with a partner"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
565
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Same Outcome Band
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