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#RI-69f87444·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 months after separation

Separated from husband after 12 years

My husband's behavior became hostile and accusatory, ruining my days with nasty messages

What I wish I knew
"How to maintain better boundaries or respond effectively to hate messages"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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