marriageCommunication Issues
#RI-69a91657·2 months ago·
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“Separated after years of communication breakdown and fighting in front of the kids”
What Actually Happened
Years of communication issues escalated into unhealthy fights in front of our kids, and I felt like I was constantly trying to regulate the situation for both of us.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to navigate emotional conversations without things blowing up, and how to help my partner regulate her emotions in a healthier way."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"If you're in a situation like this, consider seeking outside help and support, and prioritize your own emotional well-being."
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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marriage Category
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Same Outcome Band
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