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#RI-6ab0abcf·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 15 years of fighting

Sent a 'scorched earth' text to husband's sisters

Felt driven to respond after years of targeted isolation and disrespect

What I wish I knew
"How to set boundaries without escalating the situation"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let others dictate your relationships and boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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