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#RI-6a6b097b·7 months ago·
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“Failed to stand up for myself”
What Actually Happened
Allowed others to dictate my schedule and time
What I wish I knew
"Assertiveness is key to setting boundaries"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Speak up and set clear expectations"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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self-sabotage Category
1
self-sabotage decisions logged. Avg regret 9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
100%
of self-sabotage decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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