Relationshipsinfidelity
#RI-6a6b0540·9 months ago·
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“cheated on myself”
What Actually Happened
I had a brief, intense affair with a married man who lied about using protection. I stayed despite his irresponsibility and my own self-disrespect.
What I wish I knew
"I should've prioritized self-respect over temporary feelings of attraction."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't compromise your values for fleeting intimacy."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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