What Actually Happened
I had a brief, intense affair with a married man who lied about using protection. I stayed despite his irresponsibility and my own self-disrespect.
What I wish I knew
"I should've prioritized self-respect over temporary feelings of attraction."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't compromise your values for fleeting intimacy."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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