Relationshipscriticism
#RI-69f8694f·7 months ago·
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“I've been trying to please him”
What Actually Happened
He constantly criticizes me for things like my lack of friends, being careless, and not pursuing my master's degree
What I wish I knew
"I wish he understood that his constant criticism is affecting my self-esteem"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about how their words are impacting you"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
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