Relationshipsabusive relationships
#RI-6a23caea·8 months ago·
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“Chased after people capable of extreme cruelty and sadism”
What Actually Happened
I was a rape survivor who actively sought out problematic men, often with elements of coercion and dubious consent, and was drawn to people who made me feel inferior and humiliated
What I wish I knew
"I was seeking out the familiar due to trauma"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of unhealthy coping methods and seek psychiatric support"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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