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FamilySecret child
#RI-6adc3028·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 26 years

“believed ex-wife terminated pregnancy”

discovered ex-wife may have had secret child after telling me she terminated pregnancy

What I wish I knew
"asked for proof of termination"
If I could tell you one thing
"verify facts before accepting someone's word"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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