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RelationshipsBad Second Date
#RI-6a6b060a·9 months ago·
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“went on second date despite initial reservations”

guy showed up underdressed, talked about another girl, got defensive

What I wish I knew
"to trust my instincts on first date"
If I could tell you one thing
"pay attention to red flags, don't ignore gut feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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