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relationalbreakup
#RI-6a6b083b·7 months ago·
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asked for second chance

Partner broke up after 4 years of relationship without warning, then asked for a second chance, now waiting a month in silence

What I wish I knew
"Whether she's considering the second chance or just waiting for work to end"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate clearly and don't keep others waiting if you're not serious about reconciliation"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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