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#RI-6a7ab01f·7 months ago·
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“scared my girlfriend”
What Actually Happened
I scared my girlfriend, causing her body to stiffen. She got scared, then angry, and her body wouldn't listen to her mind. I helped her calm down with tea and gentle cuddles.
What I wish I knew
"how to handle her sensitive survival switch"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be patient and understanding when your partner is overwhelmed, and don't move them if they're stiff or scared"
Regret Index
2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
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Relationships Category
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