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familyAbusive Relative
#RI-6aa38178·5 months ago·
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Lookback: after his death

I chose not to sanitize my uncle's memory

My uncle's abusive behavior and death

What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd known he'd never change"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't sanitize the truth about abusers when they die"
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1/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
Would make the same decision again.
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