What Actually Happened
I hurt my boyfriend's feelings by not lending him money when he needed it
What I wish I knew
"That saying yes to a one-off loan would have been a way to show support during a difficult time"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be more understanding and empathetic when your partner is struggling, and consider lending a helping hand when possible"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relationship Category Average
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Impact
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