RelationshipsTrust Issues
#RI-69a910bc·4 months ago·
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“Said no to lending boyfriend £50”
What Actually Happened
I hurt my boyfriend's feelings by not lending him money when he needed it
What I wish I knew
"That saying yes to a one-off loan would have been a way to show support during a difficult time"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be more understanding and empathetic when your partner is struggling, and consider lending a helping hand when possible"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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