What Actually Happened
I told the man I'm seeing that I loved him, but he didn't say it back. He said he wasn't ready, which felt like a knife to my heart because he often talks about marrying me.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he wasn't emotionally ready to reciprocate my feelings despite talking about our future."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware that someone discussing a future with you doesn't mean they are ready for emotional milestones."
Regret Score
7/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Relationships Category Average
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Impact
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