RelationshipsSecret Relationship
#RI-69ba77fb·6 months ago·
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“Ruined my coworker's relationship”
What Actually Happened
Engaged in a secret romantic relationship with a coworker who was in a long-distance relationship, leading to its demise
What I wish I knew
"Being honest about my intentions and respecting her relationship boundaries"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the consequences of your actions on others and prioritize honesty and respect in relationships"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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