RelationshipsUncertain Relationship
#RI-6abf9a3c·6 months ago·
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“Started dating girl despite her past relationship issues”
What Actually Happened
Girl broke up with me after I expressed my feelings, citing her fear of getting attached
What I wish I knew
"She was more serious about her fear of attachment than I realized"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about relationship fears and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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