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#RI-6a6b04dd·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 5-10 years after having kids

Trying everything to revive a dead marriage

Feeling like a roommate in a marriage with zero intimacy and help with kids

What I wish I knew
"How to reconnect with my partner after having kids"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and seek counseling to avoid feeling like roommates"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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