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#RI-6ab11b2e·about 2 months ago·
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“I repeatedly contact men after rejection”

I've become obsessive and harassed men in the past, crossing lines into stalking

What I wish I knew
"I had a pattern of behavior that was hurting others"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and break the pattern of fixating on rejection"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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