RelationshipsJealousy
#RI-69ba7b5a·6 months ago·
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“Poured self into husband to help him heal”
What Actually Happened
Lost myself in process of helping husband heal, now separated
What I wish I knew
"Recognize own worth beyond husband's healing"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't sacrifice self for partner's growth"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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