self-improvementself-esteem
#RI-6a7aac88·2 months ago·
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“striving for perfection in relationships”
What Actually Happened
I've been self-hating and feeling unworthy due to unmet expectations
What I wish I knew
"self-worth isn't tied to achievements"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"prioritize self-acceptance over perfectionism"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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self-improvement Category
29
self-improvement decisions logged. Avg regret 4.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
34%
of self-improvement decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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