“I'm asking for a fair prenup to protect my career and assets”

Item: I'm asking for a fair prenup to protect my career and assets
Rating: 2
Author: u_artickokoa

What Actually Happened

I'm sacrificing my career and assets for my fiancé's military career, but his prenup draft leaves me vulnerable

What I wish I knew

"I wish I knew how to negotiate a fair prenup that protects both of our interests"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Don't be afraid to ask for a fair prenup that protects your career and assets, even if it's uncomfortable"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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relationship Category

743

relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

73%

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