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relationalunhealthy conflict style
#RI-6a23c81a·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 14 months including a 4 month break up

Struggling with ongoing conflict in relationship

Experienced emotional safety and repair issues with partner, leading to hours of arguing and feeling unheard

What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate emotional needs and avoid escalating conflicts"
If I could tell you one thing
"Practice active listening and validate each other's emotions to prevent unhealthy conflict patterns"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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