relationalco-parenting
#RI-69ba7b3a·4 months ago·
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“brought girlfriend around 17-month-old without discussing”
What Actually Happened
ex's girlfriend spent the night with my daughter without discussion
What I wish I knew
"discussed terms before introducing significant others"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate clearly with co-parent about boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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