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relationalreconnecting with estranged family member
#RI-69aa84f0·3 months ago·
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Lookback: After initial meeting

Rekindle relationship after 4 years of no contact

He stopped contacting me after my parents' divorce and now wants to reconnect after 4 years.

What I wish I knew
"More about his intentions and commitment to change"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and set boundaries"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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