relationaldivorce
#RI-69ba7af7·4 months ago·
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“rejected initial divorce offer”
What Actually Happened
Spouse bombarded me with guilt trips after counteroffer, claiming love due to financial reasons
What I wish I knew
"Recognize manipulation behind sudden change in behavior"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Stay focused on own healing and avoid reconciliation for personal growth"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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