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#RI-6a6b0364·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years after breakup

Rejected his friendship offer

He reconnected after 4 years, still has feelings, wants friendship

What I wish I knew
"Unhealthy attachments can persist beyond breakup"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries to avoid false hope"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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