CareerEducation
#RI-6acdad66·about 2 months ago·
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“Failed an important exam to assert independence”
What Actually Happened
I intentionally failed an exam to escape my parents' plans for my future. I felt relieved but guilty about wasting their money and disappointing them.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd had the courage to speak up sooner, without resorting to deception."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your parents, even if it's hard, and don't be afraid to take control of your own life."
Regret Index
3/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Career Category
6,107
Career decisions logged. Avg regret 5.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
29%
of Career decisions land in the settled band the same as this one.
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