RelationshipsAbusive
#RI-6a7aab91·4 months ago·
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“Refused to help pregnant ex with abortion”
What Actually Happened
I refused to help my pregnant ex with an abortion, causing her to struggle and ultimately die.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more supportive and less selfish."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be an asshole, help someone in need."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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