RelationshipsMarital Issues
#RI-6a7aa9ff·3 months ago·
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“Reevaluating separation terms”
What Actually Happened
Husband developed feelings for another woman, wants to date her, causing me pain
What I wish I knew
"I should not have tried to control the circumstances"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner, don't try to control the outcome"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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