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#RI-69ba78a9·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years

Reevaluating intimate connection in long-term marriage

I feel used and unattracted to my spouse due to lacking emotional intimacy

What I wish I knew
"Emotional intimacy is crucial for a healthy relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about emotional needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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