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#RI-6a23c8fb·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 10+ years

Reconsider past choices

Reflecting on 10+ years together, I'm unsure if I'd choose her again

What I wish I knew
"More about her long-term goals"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about future expectations"
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5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
SettledMixedSevere

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