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#RI-6a6b083e·7 months ago·
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Lookback: After sending the message

Wished ex on their birthday after 3+ months of no contact

Received complete silence, unsure if I should've sent the message

What I wish I knew
"What the outcome would be"
If I could tell you one thing
"Think twice before reaching out after a long period of no contact"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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