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#RI-6aad14dd·3 months ago·
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“broke no contact to figure out relationship”

I broke no contact and tried to figure out if there was still something between my wife and me. She told me she didn't want cozy feelings between us, so I ended contact.

What I wish I knew
"her true intentions before trying to rebuild"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't break no contact if you're not ready for the truth"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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