relationshipsBreakup
#RI-6aa0dcc3·3 months ago·
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“I accepted a ride home from my ex.”
What Actually Happened
My ex and I broke up amicably, but when she gave me a ride after we finalized our old lease, I saw an empty Plan B package in her car. The sight made me feel sick and completely derailed my healing process.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how much seeing evidence of her moving on would hurt me."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious with post-breakup interactions to protect your own healing, even if the split was amicable."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
583
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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