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#RI-69f87342·5 months ago·
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I decided to reconcile instead of divorcing.

How may people got divorced several years after separation and then reconciling?

Seems like this may be the direction, and I feel stupid that I have it a go again, 5 years ago, instead of just calling it. I was out. I THOUGHT it was going to be better, I TOUGHT it was the best thing for our child.

Now I THINK I’m an idiot.

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