RelationshipsSpouse's behavior
#RI-6a7aaa0b·8 months ago·
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“Realized my spouse's behavior is a pattern”
What Actually Happened
My spouse has been consistently self-centered and a poor gift giver, but recently showed enthusiasm and effort when buying a gift for their half-sister, making me feel let down and regretful of my relationship
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew my spouse's behavior was a pattern and not an isolated incident"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of your partner's behavior and communicate your needs and expectations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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