Relationshipstrust issues
#RI-69ba7711·6 months ago·
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“read his messages when he handed me his phone”
What Actually Happened
Reading the messages led to an argument and increased tension in our relationship
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had asked him about the messages before reading them"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your concerns, rather than taking matters into your own hands"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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