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#RI-6a7aa98a·5 months ago·
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messaged ex after breakup

Ex messaged me then deleted it, reopened old wound

What I wish I knew
"Why he did it, if he still has feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't give them the satisfaction, let go"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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