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RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-6a7aaa7d·9 months ago·
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“Reached out to ex after breakup”

Wrote unsendable text to ex, expressing regret and hurt

What I wish I knew
"Ex had already decided to end relationship before intimacy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Reflect on own feelings and boundaries before investing in a relationship"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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