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#RI-69aa8764·3 months ago·
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“reach out after 2 years of breakup”
What Actually Happened
I lost her due to my emotional numbness caused by depression, and now I'm flooded with unprocessed feelings after seeing her again
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had acknowledged and processed my emotions back then"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't let fear of vulnerability hold you back from being honest with your partner"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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