FamilyGrooming
#RI-6ace36e8·5 months ago·
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“Raised sister's child instead of her”
What Actually Happened
Raised child, missed activities, time for myself due to sister's decision
What I wish I knew
"How to deal with negative emotions towards sister and her child's father"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Prioritize self-care when taking on someone else's responsibilities"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Family Category
150
Family decisions logged. Avg regret 7.1/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Family decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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