parentingToxic Parenting
#RI-69a919b5·2 months ago·
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“Raised myself and siblings with unhealthy habits”
What Actually Happened
My parents' neglect and bullying led to extreme depression and OCD. I'm exhausted and regret making unhealthy choices for my siblings, especially my brother, who's now getting bad grades due to my parents' influence.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own well-being, especially during my childhood."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"To anyone in a similar situation, prioritize self-care and seek help if you're struggling with toxic parents or family dynamics."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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parenting Category
29
parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 6.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
62%
of parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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